A Scottish wedding is a wedding with roots. Beneath the modern celebration runs a current of custom that stretches back centuries — hands bound with cloth, a shared cup of trust, a sash of clan tartan, and an old brooch pinned close to the heart. Whether you are planning to weave a little Scottish heritage into your own day or simply love the traditions of the old country, here are the customs that make a Scottish wedding unmistakably Scottish.
Quick Answer: What Are the Main Scottish Wedding Traditions?
The best-known Scottish wedding traditions include handfasting (binding the couple's hands together, the origin of "tying the knot"), sharing the quaich or cup of friendship, exchanging a Luckenbooth love brooch, the wearing of clan tartan by the groom and a tartan sash by the bride, a piper to lead the celebration, and a lively ceilidh dance to finish. Many couples of Scottish descent include one or more of these to honour their heritage.
What Is Handfasting?
Handfasting is the old Scottish custom of binding the couple's joined hands together with a ribbon, cord or length of tartan during the ceremony. It is widely held to be the origin of the phrase "tying the knot," and it makes the couple's union visible in the most literal way. Historically it was a binding betrothal or marriage custom in Scotland, and today it is one of the most popular heritage elements couples choose to include. We cover its full history in What Is Handfasting?
What Is the Quaich Ceremony?
The quaich — Scotland's two-handled "cup of friendship" — has a natural place at a wedding. The couple share a drink from it, each holding one handle, as a symbol of their union and the joining of two families in trust. It is a simple, moving moment, and the quaich itself often becomes a treasured keepsake of the day. Its two handles carry a meaning all their own, which we explore in The Quaich: Scotland's Cup of Friendship.
What Is a Luckenbooth Brooch?
The Luckenbooth is a traditional Scottish love token — a silver brooch of a heart, or two entwined hearts, topped with a crown. Given between sweethearts as a betrothal gift, it was a classic token of love and loyalty, and after the wedding it was often pinned to the couple's first baby's shawl for protection. It is Scotland's romantic cousin to the Irish Claddagh, and we tell its story in The Luckenbooth: Scotland's Love Token.
How Is Tartan Worn at a Scottish Wedding?
Tartan is at the heart of Scottish wedding dress. The groom and groomsmen often wear the kilt in their clan tartan, while the bride may wear a sash of her own or her new husband's clan tartan, pinned at the shoulder. It is a beautiful way of carrying family identity into the day, and of visibly joining two clans. If you are unsure which tartan belongs to your family, our guide on whether anyone can wear a tartan is a helpful starting point, and How to Find Your Scottish Clan can help you trace it.
What Other Scottish Wedding Customs Are There?
- The piper — a bagpiper leads the couple in and plays them out, a stirring sound that announces a Scottish wedding before you even see it.
- The ceilidh — no Scottish wedding is complete without a ceilidh, the traditional gathering of music and lively group dances that gets everyone on their feet.
- The speeches and toasts — raised in Scots and Gaelic as often as in English; you'll find a collection in our guide to Scottish toasts and sayings.
- The blackening — an old and messy pre-wedding custom in which friends cover the bride or groom in treacle, flour and feathers for luck; more common in rural areas and best approached with a sense of humour.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What is the most famous Scottish wedding tradition?
Handfasting — binding the couple's hands together with cloth or cord — is the best known, and is widely regarded as the origin of the phrase "tying the knot."
What is a quaich used for at a wedding?
The couple share a drink from the two-handled quaich, each holding a handle, as a symbol of their union and the joining of their two families in trust.
Does the bride wear tartan at a Scottish wedding?
Often the bride wears a sash of her own or her husband's clan tartan, pinned at the shoulder, while the groom wears the kilt in his clan tartan.
What is a ceilidh?
A ceilidh is a traditional Scottish gathering of music and group dancing that rounds off most Scottish weddings and celebrations.
Carry Your Heritage Into the Day
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